Abundance Is a Frequency, Not a Dollar Figure

How healing your energetic relationship with money changes everything.

For so many heart-led women — coaches, creatives, empaths, and spiritual entrepreneurs — the pursuit of abundance can feel like a never-ending riddle.

You do the affirmations. You work hard. You stay positive (most of the time). And yet, financial flow still feels inconsistent, unstable… or just plain stressful.

What if your relationship with money has nothing to do with how much you hustle — and everything to do with your energetic alignment?

In the work I do in Wealth Energetics, we look at money not just as currency, but as a mirror. It reflects our beliefs, our boundaries, our sense of worth, and the energetic patterns we carry — often unconsciously — from family, society, and past experiences.

The truth is: abundance is your natural state

I believe that abundance is not a mindset, a manifesting hack, or a number in your bank account.

✨ Abundance is a frequency.

It’s the frequency of love, worthiness, Source energy, and alignment with your soul.

And if you’re not feeling financially abundant right now, that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It simply means your inner frequency may need some gentle recalibration.

Let’s look at three of the most common energy leaks I see when it comes to money:

1. Scarcity

Our culture is built on a foundation of lack — limited time, limited money, limited worth. Marketing constantly tells us to “buy now before it runs out.” We’re told we’re not enough unless we have more, do more, earn more.

This scarcity frequency is like an invisible current. It’s easy to get swept up in it. But it’s not your truth.

“Scarcity isn’t just a mindset — it’s a vibration we’re conditioned into. But once you become aware of it, you can choose differently.”

2. Unworthiness

Money wounds often stem from deep-rooted beliefs around worth: - “I have to prove myself.” - “I don’t deserve that.” - “People like me don’t get to have wealth.” When we carry these beliefs, we unconsciously repel money or sabotage our ability to receive and hold it.

3. Power Leaks

This one’s sneaky. Have you ever: - Shrunk when a bill arrived? - Avoided looking at your bank account? - Collapsed into fear around a business investment? These are all signs of giving your power away to money. It doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It means your nervous system is trying to protect you — and there’s an invitation to heal.

My personal money wound: the day I got in trouble for receiving.

In my 20s, during a divorce, I sold a rundown house at auction. It had water views, and to my surprise, the bidding went well. I felt ecstatic — for a moment. Until a man who’d bid on the property came up to me and said, “How can you live with yourself? You manipulated the auction.”

I was shocked. I hadn’t done anything wrong — but I internalised his judgment. Suddenly, the joy of receiving money was laced with shame, guilt, and fear of getting in trouble.

A belief formed that day: “Receiving money easily leads to punishment.”That’s what I mean by money wounds. They are energetic imprints that stay buried until we bring them to the light, reframe the story, and offer forgiveness — to others and ourselves.

So, how do you begin to heal?

You don’t need to be perfect. You don’t need to have it all figured out. But here are three powerful ways to start shifting your money frequency:

1. Start looking for abundance. Right now, without changing anything, notice what you do have. Can you see abundance in nature, in time, in connection? In the trees outside your window, in the food in your fridge, in the million-dollar homes you pass each day? This is the foundation of true energetic wealth:

“Gratitude isn’t a mindset trick — it’s a frequency shift that retrains your nervous system to receive.”

2. Practice forgiveness

Not just for others, but for yourself. For the decisions you made when you didn’t know better. For the shame you’ve been carrying. For the ways you’ve judged or rejected money. Forgiveness clears emotional debris. It softens your field. It dissolves hidden resistances so more can flow in.

3. Call your power back. You are not at the mercy of money. You are not broken. You are a powerful co-creator. When you reconnect with Source — with your true self — you start to remember that abundance lives within you.

Why this work matters (now more than ever)

When we avoid this inner work, we stay stuck in cycles of survival, self-doubt, and silent scarcity.

But when we shift our money relationship, the ripple effect is profound. We show up differently in our relationships, our businesses, our creativity, our health.

This isn’t just about wealth — it’s about coming home to who you really are.

You are worthy of abundance.

You are safe to receive.

You are allowed to thrive.

Ready to heal your money wounds and raise your abundance frequency?

Becoming a Money Magnet is my signature online course that gently guides you through this powerful inner shift.

With practical tools, energetic healing, and soulful guidance, you’ll begin to clear the fear, activate your natural magnetism, and step into financial alignment.

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